Strong women dating men
While women tend to crave a relationship with passion at its core; men become more demanding in the relationship in a different way – they tend to want a smooth life free of drama.” “We tend to think that with each new generation dating a powerful woman is becoming more normal, almost as much as a woman dating a powerful man.
But many men still ask themselves ‘Can a powerful and independent woman fit with my vision of what a couple should be like? ’ It’s still not 100% accepted socially – even amongst friends and family – simply because some stereotypes unfortunately still prevail.
She has worked extensively within the online dating industry, and provides consultation to those wishing to connect with like-minded partners online.
You brought up a few points that I want to touch on.
Let’s examine the Cons of going out with a strong woman?
Reason being: Now, I’m not saying all of this to accuse you of being these things.
I am bringing them up to highlight that our culture has a huge misconception of what is actually desirable.
Why don’t we first examine some core elements of being a “strong woman:”As I look over this list, it seems to me that these qualities are gender neutral. She is seen as, “independent, self-reliant, not needing a man, strong-willed, and a motherly or matronly take charge person who tells people what to do and takes no nonsense.” Bottom line, this is someone to be feared. Brings up mommy issues, feelings of dependency and individuation challenges. In other words, she will have a mind of her own and I may have to justify myself (ideas, beliefs, desires) and she will not go along with me just because I think she should.
Deep stuff but we will leave that for another time.◊♦◊How often have you heard someone say, “Hey, Bob, I want to introduce you to this ‘strong woman’? Most guys are probably backing up big time at this question. Gasp, you mean she is an independent life form with a mind of her own?