Dating for married people ashley
My hypothesis was simple: women who were looking for an extramarital affair with another married man were looking to connect in some way.If both parties were married, they not only started on even ground, but they had something in common—they were missing something from their current relationship.I responded to a few messages, and before I knew it I was invited to a chat session with "Sexy Cat" (profile name changed to ensure her anonymity).Sexy Cat wanted to know all kinds of things, and what I would do if given the opportunity. In each session, I attempted to take things to the next level—an in-person meeting—but no-go.After a long pause, I got her only thought: "No, I get it," she said emphatically. But it's kinda like asking the newly vegetarian fox to guard the henhouse, isn't it? I worked hard to become the embodiment of seduction." I thought about it, and unfortunately her statement wasn't too far from the truth. To quickly read the spoken and unspoken clues of what a woman was looking for in a man, and then give her the perception I was that guy.
Of course, on my end, there'd be nothing more than conversation. I searched her eyes for any telltale sign of the Charles-I'm-going-to-punch-you-in-the-face-right-after-I-castrate-you look; nothing.I needed to uncover the motivations behind starting and maintaining an affair. Numerous websites are dedicated to connecting those looking to engage in flagrante delicto sans spouse.Married Cafe and Lonely Wives Affairs are but the tip of the iceberg, and all have women and men signing up in droves.So began the pitch I gave my wife to let me join the marrieds-looking-for-affairs website Ashley Madison.It would be part of my research into women who cheat, why infidelity is increasing, and what can be done to possibly affair-proof a marriage.