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There isn’t anything special you have to do, and to the extent that you try to be someone you aren’t you’ll likely turn women off because you won’t be at ease.The fact that you’re worried about how to act suggest to me that your brain is more focused on what the woman might want from you rather than what you might want from the woman.And if I have stated it correctly there, I think that is part of the problem because that is exactly backwards from how it should be.You want your dating partners to like you, obviously, but you don’t need to think badly about yourself if they don’t.Again, you are judging yourself from the woman’s perspective rather than your own, and finding yourself failing before you begin. Some women will look at you as a loser if they learn that you are inexperienced.Some women just want to be pursued, and if you won’t do that they won’t like it.That fear and that passivity will have to be addressed and looked square in the eye if you are to solve this problem of yours.You say you can’t build up enough energy to date, but the message that is really communicated is that you feel too much like a “dork” to date.

For others, it’s accidental: this guy simply missed the point when everyone else did ‘it’.

If I go out with someone my own age, I am going to be light-years behind in experience. When you say that you are a nice guy, I wonder if what you mean is that you are a passive guy. I note that you’ve been on dates but have bailed out of the process after the second date, perhaps because you “fear intimacy” as it were (the second date being the beginning of the period when the formation of a relationship becomes a possibility).

Dating someone 18 and inexperienced like me is also quickly becoming, if not already, not possible. If I end up becoming a “40 Year Old Virgin” I will probably end my life because at that point I will have lost my window of opportunity to have a normal family life. There is a passive vibe to your letter, and an undercurrent of fear, and together these two things seem to be making it difficult for you to ask for dates and to build a relationship.

Girls aren’t used to men not wanting to sleep with them so he quickly gets a reputation of being ‘a bit weird’ or ‘gay’ and before he knows it, he’s scared of dating and sex. It’s so readily available and prolific, men no longer need to go out and pursue women to satisfy themselves sexually.

Why should they when they can stay at home and explore all their sexual fantasies online with no risk of rejection or ridicule?

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